It was really a big discovery for me to learn the fact, that i say the words, opinions, which are not belong to me, but are blindly repeated after other people, making them my own without even trying to contest it! More than enough would be just to ask yourself: “Wait a moment! Do I really think that?”, “What do I think about that?”, “Do I really believe so? Do I really agree with that?”. And trust me, you are allowed to not agree! Then, suddenly after posing all those questions to yourself you realise that you just nurse other people’s beliefs, opinions, thoughts over and over again without reflection! BANG! Your eyes open! Start realising that e.g. strong beliefs of your mother doesn’t have to be yours as well if they make your life more difficult; or that your friend’s opinion about a very important situation can differ from yours! Even if their words sound so clever and intelligent and you got used to using it again and again that it is hard to stop it! But if you start realising and observing that, it will become easier an easier and sometime a great fun.
You can, you are allowed to have your own opinion, your own view and to use your own unique words which are true to you and which suit your worldview.
YOUR OPINION MATTERS!!
YOU HAVE RIGHTS TO HAVE IT!
YOU ARE NOT WORSE THAN OTHERS!!!
As you are aware of that, keep observing yourself and the words you say…
Moreover, what is worth here to say, when you start creating YOUR OWN words and positions instead of someone’s you will quickly gain a big dose of self-respect and respect from your environment because you consequently keep up with your own beliefs and you just do your bit! And don’t get me wrong it is not about begging and trying for other’s approval it is just a beneficial ‘side effect’ of being yourself and creating your world!
REMEMBER YOU ARE THE CREATOR OF YOUR LIFE!!
How confident are you?
Tell me, how is it in your case?
Lot of LOVE